Amos Story Music Video by Aaron Ivey

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Friends, Videos

I’ve written about Aaron Ivey before and how I not only greatly love and respect him as a person but also as an artist and activist.  I think his latest album is fantastic, and one of my favorite cuts is “Amos Story.”

Perhaps it’s that while Liza and I haven’t adopted yet, we share Aaron and Jamie’s passion for adoption.  Maybe it’s because I’ve been able to watch their journey with Amos and Story from afar and have been continuously blessed to be reminded of the faithfulness of God they’ve experienced along the way.  It could be that our daughters share the same name (which I might have subconsciously stolen from him, though I really don’t think that’s what happened).  Whatever the reason, this song has touched me as one who’s an adopted heir of our Abba Father, as a parent, as a (hopefully and prayerfully) future adoptive parent, and as just a human being.

Today Amos is still in Haiti.  He’s relatively okay following all of the destruction his native country has experienced from the earthquake last week.  However, I can’t imagine how much more he wants now to be home with his Papa and Mama and brothers and sister.  I also can’t imagine how much Aaron and Jamie want him home.  You can find out more about Amos and Story as well as the rest of the Ivey’s over at Aaron’s site.  But at the very least, please pray for them and for Amos and that their family might finally be united together soon.

Today Aaron posted the music video for “Amos Story,” and I wanted to make sure I shared it with all of you.  Be sure to click over to his site and let him know how much you like it.

The Best Use Of This Blog Ever

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Blogs, Faith, Friends, God, Health, Life

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You see the graph up there?  It’s from Google Analytics and is for my blog’s traffic over the last month.  Now, I have high hopes of what this blog might be, dreams of it having hundreds of readers a day.  But that’s a lot of ego, if I’m honest.  Anyway, I’m used to looking at a graph like the one above and not seeing it climb above about 77 for any given day.  I’m also used to the peaks and valleys that come with not updating every single day.  But as you can see, about a week ago, my graph suddenly changed.

That’s when Sterling Davis had surgery on his brain to remove a tumor.  I wrote a little post about how we could all be praying for him.  Some of you thought it was good and helpful, and so you passed it along to a few other people.  Some of them felt the same way and passed it on to a few more.  Eventually, that one little post got a lot of hits.

Funny how I’ve always wanted my personal blog to grow and the only time it really has was when it was devoted completely to someone else.

That’s the best use of a blog that I can think of.

And the best response too.

So, anyway, Sterling did really well in his surgery.  The doctors were able to get about 85% of the tumor out, which was huge.  He went home after just a few days, which is even… well… huger.  Since then, Roger and Becca, Sterling’s parents, have just been waiting to hear from the pathologist as to whether the tumor was benign or malignant.  In other words, they were waiting to find out if it was cancerous or not.  Well, today they got their answer.

It’s benign.

See?  I told you prayer works.

However, please continue to pray for Sterling’s continued healing.  The prognosis is a lot better now, but the journey’s not over.  I’m humbled to see all of you walk along with him.

Thanks.

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Continuing to Pray for Sterling

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Friends, God, Health, Life

I never intended this to be a hub for people wanting to find out more about Sterling, but I’m humbled how it’s been used to help keep people informed about how Sterling’s doing and, more specifically, how we can all be praying for him.

I want to first thank everyone who has joined in prayer for Sterling, Roger and Becca, his parents, and Landry and Kinsley, his sisters.  There are literally countless thousands of people praying, and I believe it is showing.

Though I’m not the most informed, here’s a quick update:

The surgery yesterday was successful.  So, there’s answered prayer number one.  It took a little longer than expected but went well.  Dr. Wellons was in there for over nine hours and only took breaks to go to the bathroom. Sterling did great.  Roger and Becca were able to visit with him some last night.  He had a good bit of swelling, but was able to give a good thumbs-up.  The report this morning is that he continues to do well and has quickly build a reputation for being one of the most polite 4-year-olds the staff has ever encountered.  No surprise there.

There are still a lot of questions.  The report from the biopsy won’t be back for a few more days at the earliest.  Sterling’s in the pediatric intensive care unit where his progress will be monitored until he’s ready to be moved to a room where he’ll continue recovery for about a week before hopefully going home.  He will have another MRI this morning to determine how much of the tumor they will able to get.  The plan for what’s next largely depends on how his recovery goes, what the results are from today’s MRI and what the results of the biopsy turn out to be.

So, some continued prayer requests include:

1.  Sterling’s recovery – praying specifically for no complications as a result of the surgery, no need for physical or occupational therapy, and growing strength for him.

2.  MRI results – they’re not sure how much tumor they were able to get.  Even if they don’t feel they got all of it, I know that our God has the power to take away whatever is left.  That’s what I’m personally praying for.  At any rate, asking for good results.

3.  Biopsy results – praying that they’ll be back quickly.  I can’t imagine having to wait on them.  Also, praying specifically that the results come back that the tumor is benign.

4.  Rest for Roger and Becca – most of us can’t specifically relate to what they’re enduring nor fathom how exhausting it is.  Add on to that that Becca is about seven weeks from her due-date and there’s a lot going on for them.  Rest is much needed, rest and rejuvenation even beyond the amount of sleep they’re able to get.

5.  God’s glory – it’s weird to think of how God might be glorified through the struggles of our life.  However, it’s already happening, and it’s really the ultimate good that can come out of these types of situations.

Thank you all for being the Church and for your continued prayers for Sterling.

Blessings.

Update on Sterling Davis

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Friends, God, Health, Life

It’s about 3:45.  Tanya Smith in our office here at Student Life just sent out a bit of an update, and since a number of you have been checking in here today (totally humbling, by the way) I wanted to communicate it to all of you.  So, here it is.

Sterling went in for surgery about 8am this morning.  They’ve been able to get to the tumor and are doing some preliminary tests (for the surgeon – not for a long-term diagnosis) because the tumor was a little bit different color and consistency than he was expecting when they started.  This doesn’t necessarily indicate that something more is wrong – tumors come in all shapes, sizes and colors.  However, it is different than what the surgeon expected so he’s just trying to be cautious.  The tumor is also pressing a little bit on a blood vessel and it’s causing it to bleed a little bit.  They are keeping a close eye on that but they may need to give him some blood in a couple of hours.  Please be praying for that.  The doctors are hoping to avoid that if they can but will do whatever they need to for Sterling.  His vitals look good and so far, he’s doing well in surgery.

Please continue to pray.  Because they got started a little later than expected, the surgery may last a couple of hours longer than expected.  That obviously moves back everything like his waking up and Roger and Becca getting to see him.  The Davis’ are so grateful to be surrounded by so many that care about them and that are praying for Sterling.  Earlier on twitter Roger said “Can feel the prayers of thousands that have taken Sterling & our family to the throne room.”  I know your prayers for them mean a lot.  The Lord is sustaining them just as He is always faithful to do.

Because of what is a huge mountain of faith the Davis’ have been called to walk through, the Lord is already working to use that for good. Just a bit of testimony of how the Lord is using this so far:   A woman in Nashville – the mother of a friend of the Davis’ – has heard about what they are going through and has been following their updates on Sterling.  In honor of the 4 Davis children, she has decided to change the lives of 4 children by sponsoring them through Compassion.  Roger and Becca were so excited to hear this!

Please continue to pray for wisdom and discernment for the surgical team, strength for the family, protection for Sterling and for the Lord’s name to be known.

Thank you friends.  More updates will come as we get them.

Praying for Sterling

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Faith, Friends, God, Health, Life

I started playing soccer when I was four-years-old.  My team was called “The Gremlins,” and we were pretty good.  I absolutely loved playing soccer.  I wish I had stuck with it because it’s the one sport that I was ever any good at.

However, I don’t think I was as good then as this guy.

35772817That’s Sterling, son of Roger and Becca Davis.  I got to go to his soccer game on Sunday afternoon, and I’ve got to tell you, boy’s got skills.  Like serious skills.  He can control the ball but isn’t afraid to let it get away from him for a moment.  He drives hard.  His footwork is good.  Plus, he genuinely enjoys playing.  It’s like he doesn’t know how good he is, and he doesn’t get frustrated with any of the other kids who, honestly, aren’t near as good.  I mean, he scored 7 goals alone.  If you know soccer, you know that’s pretty good.

Anyway, watching this game was a great privilege because of how excited Sterling was to be playing.  He didn’t get to play last week, because there were some medical questions being asked about him at the time, some that have since been answered.

You see, Sterling has a tumor in the middle of his brain.  It’s about the size of a ping-pong ball, and today a group of medical professionals are going in to get it.

So, today, in the midst of everything else I might have going on in my day, I’m going to be practicing “praying without ceasing,” perhaps like I never have before.  I’d like to invite you to join me.

Here’s a few things you can be praying for specifically:

  1. A successful surgery. -  What’s the definition of “successful” here?  Well, according to Roger, one simply where Sterling comes out of it.  I know that sounds serious, but that’s because it is.
  2. Getting the whole tumor. -  The doctor has told them that he expects to get about 85% of it with the chance to get the whole thing.  Evidently, there’s 15% that’s in a blind area, and the doctor isn’t willing to risk going into that blind area.  Totally understandable.  However, the way they’ll remove the tumor, evidently, is by “drilling” into it so that it collapses on itself.  Hopefully, the hidden 15% will collapse with the rest so that it can come on out.  Roger equated it to a gummy worm being stuck in your kid’s car seat.  You pull on it hoping the whole thing comes out, but there’s a chance the end breaks off.  So, pray for the whole worm.
  3. Good recovery. – They say that kids bounce back a lot better than adults.  So, that’s good.  And Sterling’s a strong, active kid (as you can tell from how good he is at soccer).  So, I fully expect this one to be easy.  However, we definitely want the Lord’s hand fully in Sterling’s recovery.  They’re expecting a seven-day hospital stay followed by about three weeks at home.  However, he could be up and going after a couple of days.  There’s just a number of factors on which that depends.
  4. A benign tumor. – This is just the beginning of a bit of a journey for Sterling, Roger, Becca and their family.  The prayer is that the journey isn’t made any more serious.
  5. Strength for Sterling. – I can’t imagine having to process this for myself, much less being a four-almost-five-year-old.  It’s a lot to deal with for sure, but I know that with God, Sterling can get through it for sure.
  6. Peace for Roger and Becca. – Probably the hardest thing for them to have right now.
  7. Guidance and empowering for Dr. Wellons. – This is Sterling’s main doctor, at least the one that’s going to be holding the instruments in the O.R.  However, we’re seeking the help of the Great Physician.  I want Him to be the one working in and through all the doctors and nurses.

It’s obviously going to be a long day.  But you can keep up with updates I’m sure by following @jrogerdavis and @davisbecca on Twitter.

Prayer is effective.  I believe it, and I know it.  Thanks for joining me and all the many others lifting up Sterling today.

Greetings and Welcome

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Friends, Random

According to Google Analytics I had people from 27 different countries visit this site over the past month.  I don’t know if that’s a lot or not, but it is at least a lot for me.  So, I wanted to take a chance to greet all of you and let you know how glad I am you stopped by.  You’re always welcome here.  So…

U.S.A. – Hi.  Welcome.

South Africa – Dag. Welkom. OR Sawubona. Isibingelelo.

Belgium – Hallo. Feestelijk Inhalen.

Brazil – Olá. Boa Vinda.

Canada – Hello.  Welcome.  Eh.

United Kingdom – ‘Allo.  Welcome.

Philippines – Kumusta. Maligayang Pagdating.

Ukraine – привіт.  ласкаво просимо.

Indonesia – Salam. Selamat Datang.

India – हैलो.  स्वागत.

Russia – здравствуйте.  добро пожаловать.

Malawi – Moni.  Tikulandirani.

Albania – Përshëndetje.  Mirëseerdhët.

Pakistan – .سلام.  کا خیر مقدم

Chile – Hola. Bienvenido.

Qatar – أهل. مرحبا

Singapore – Halo.  Selamat Datang.

Puerto Rico – Hola. Bienvenido.

Australia – G’day.  Welcome.

Spain – Hola. Bienvenido.

Slovenia – Zdravo.  Dobrodošli.

Mexico – Hola. Bienvenido.

Austria – Guten Tag. Willkommen.

Malaysia – Halo.  Selamat Datang.

United Arab Emirates – أهل.  مرحبا.

Israel – שָׁלוֹם בָּרוּך הַבָּא

Sweden – Hej.  Välkommen.

Thanks for stopping by (though most of you bounced pretty quickly).

Y’all come back, now, ya’ hear?

Friend Friday: Freeing My Mind

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Blogs, Family, Friends, God, Ministry

I’ve got some updating to do to the old site here and might get to it this weekend (hopefully).  One of the (many) things I have to do is to add to my ever-increasing blogroll.  I’ve gone ahead and started, though, with today’s Friend Friday Feature.

As you’ll notice (if you’re a careful observer), I’ve added a new category to the blogroll.  “Family Ties.”  As you might guess, this will be a place to bring special attention to blogs that belong to members of my family.  The only two I’m reading (and am aware of) right now are Liza’s and (my brother) Craig’s.

Craig just entered into the blogosphere this week.  So, please, welcome him and make him feel at home.  If you’re one of those people who likes to bring cookies to the new neighbors, Craig likes chocolate chip.  You can find him over at “Freeing My Mind.”

Since Craig just started blogging there’s not a lot to read, but what is there is good.  He’s an excellent writer, and you’ll probably discover that we have similar voices when it comes to that kind of stuff.  Also, once you’re done with the blog, you can head on over to his ministry site and check out some of the articles he’s written.  He also has a podcast that’s relaunching soon, and I’m supposed to be a part of at least one of them.  I’ll definitely link to those when they’re up, but you can always check out his other ones too.

From time to time someone will ask me what Craig does, and I never really know how to adequately answer them.  He’s in ministry (Awake International) , for sure, and he ministers primarily in a sector of the Church that most visitors to this site probably don’t encounter very much.  I think Craig would say he’s a reformer, or at least those are his aspirations.  At any rate, he’s a teacher and preacher and prophet and budding writer and mentor to various people every year through his AwakeU program.  The churches and events where Craig is are often marked by a working of the Spirit that many of us don’t get to experience very often.  To be honest, Craig operates in a world that I don’t always understand but I need to and that challenges me consistently.

If nothing else I can say that I have personally witnessed no other greater work of God than what He’s done in Craig’s life.  Maybe one day I’ll write more about here, but for today, I’ll encourage you to get to know him and find out for yourself.

Friend Friday: Shlog

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Blogs, Compassion, Friends

Shlog is the blog of Shaun Groves (get it? “Shaun” – “aun” + “blog” – “b” = “Shlog”. that concludes our math lesson for the day).  If you look in the various blogroll categories I have listed on the right, you’ll notice that I have Shaun listed under “Some People I Know (Kinda).”  That “(Kinda)” is there for a reason.  To be honest, I don’t really know Shaun hardly at all.  I mean, I read his blog, obviously.  So, I know a some stuff about him, things he does, thinks, feels, says, in so far as he writes them down and publishes them there.  And we’ve communicated to one another a handful of times on Twitter.  Other than that, we’ve only actually met two or three times.  I can only recall two for sure, though I could swear there was a third time.  Both of the times I can remember involved a mutual passion we share, seeking the release of children around the world from poverty in Jesus’ name through Compassion International (for more info on Compassion click my category to the left or the add on the right; if you’d like to sponsor a child then simply click here).

The first was during our Clairty tour here at Student Life.  During that tour we were honored to have a graduate of Compassion’s program travel with us to be an advocate for the million children with whom they work.  Her name was Jackie and her story is awesome.  Compassion had randomly chosen to begin filming her when she was a young girl in their program in Uganda.  Their pick couldn’t have been more provident.  They’ve been able to follow her all the way through their program, and she is a real success story.  I had the privilege of meeting her mother while I was in Uganda that year.  It was obvious to me that not only had Compassion made a difference in Jackie’s life but in that of her entire family as well.  But I digress.  While Jackie was here in the States travelling with us, Shaun (who’s a Compassion advocate, himself, and even directs their Compassion Bloggers program) came down from Nashvile to just sit down with Jackie and interview her a little bit.  Taylor, Eric and I filmed their time together.  Now that I’m writing this I’m wondering what ever happened to that footage and if it was used at all.  I should ask him.

The second time we met was at an appreciation dinner hosted by Compassion during GMA week.  Shaun had recently traveled with Compassion on their first ever vision trip for bloggers.  I think they went to Uganda, coincidentally enough.  Following that trip he was then tapped to lead their effort.  Maybe that was the plan all along.  I don’t know.  I just remember them announcing it at that dinner.

So, that’s it, really, as far as me knowing him personally, which, again, isn’t really at all.  What I do know is that Shaun is a lot of things as far as labels go.  Musician.  Songwriter.  Preacher.  Husband.  Father.  Writer.  Thinker.  From what I can tell he’s not one to be comfortable with the status quo.  It seems to me that he seeks Jesus with a devoted passion and is willing to literally follow Him wherever He leads.  Unfortunatley, that makes him a real radical in the American church that challenges and at least afflicts any of us who get too content in our pews (or padded stadium seats) for an hour on Sunday.

But that’s not really why I wanted to feature him and his Shlog for this edition of “Friend Friday.”  Here’s the real reason.

Shaun recently had a bout with depression.  I know this not because of any real connection we have but because once he came out of it he began writing about it on the Shlog.  You can find the posts here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here and here (or just click here).  He writes about this time openly, honestly and forthrightly.  I know that a lot of you don’t like posts that have much length at all (it’s a wonder you stop by here at all), and these posts aren’t short, but they’re worth reading.  I don’t know.  I wonder how much you will get out of them.  For me, though, they were a Godsend, literally.  From the moment the first post popped up in my Google Reader I was captivated, eagerly waiting (often not patiently) for the next installment.

The reason why is because I struggle with depression, too. I have for years.  Many of you may not know that.  I don’t really talk about it that much.  It’s hard for me to do so, not because I don’t want to or am not willing to, but because I often can’t find the words for it.  It’s something I live with and experience deeply but when I’m not gripped by it I have trouble thinking about it and contemplating it.  It’s like that depressed version of me is someone I don’t know, a stranger (or at least unwelcomed visitor) that I have no idea how to interact with.  Shaun, however, found the words, and through them I found I could relate so much.

Depression is a tricky topic in the Church.  After all, we have the “joy of the Lord,” what’s there to be depressed about?  That’s a great question with no easy answers, but in his posts, Shaun takes them on and does so beautifully.

I don’t know, maybe this Friend Friday is one that’s just too personal.  You might not have any interest in reading those posts whatsoever.  But even if you don’t, Shaun’s got a lot to say, and it’s usually not easy.  So, I think he’s worth listening to and getting to know (at least as much as you can).

Again, you can read the Shlog or follow Shaun on Twitter.  His next trip with Compassion Bloggers is in November.  His lates post is about putting that group together.  Be sure to follow that and let anyone and everyone know about it.  It could save a child’s life, quite literally.

Thanks.  Have a great weekend!

Friend Friday: Bogue and Weejer

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Blogs, Friends

Bogue and Weejer is the blog home of Ruth Tinsley.  I’ve actually known Ruth and her husband David for a number of years, even before they were married.  You see, we went to the same college, Mississippi College, to be exact..  Though, I think I was a senior when they were freshmen (or maybe sophomores; I can’t really remember for sure).  We first met my last semester.  I was doing set and technical design for one of our shows (Children of Eden) in which Ruth and David were cast.  David played Noah and Ruth played the dove.  One night I messed up one of Ruth’s lighting cues, but she didn’t skip a beat and never went all diva on me about it.

Further on down the road, as I worked Student Life Camp in the summers, I often was part of the team hosting events at Shocco Springs.  Ruth and David were on the Shocco summer staff a few years.  So, that’s cool.  Eventually, we at SL hired Ruth to be a graphic designer.  She now does her thing for a church from home as well as freelance stuff.  So, while she’s not on our payroll anymore, we still get to work with her some, which is beneficial because she’s a great designer.

Ruth really helped me out without even knowing it because Liza was helping throw a baby shower for Erin.  She was in charge of invitations and was really stressed about it because she couldn’t find anything cute.  So, Ruth designed one for her and it was awesome.  Thus, the general atmosphere of my home was much more peaceful.  Thanks, Ruth.

Ruth and David are also expecting twins, which is extremely awesome.

Anyway, back to the blog.  Ruth writes about many different things.  Her interests are wide and varied.  Thus, so are her posts.  However, every one is not only well-written, but is also interesting, witty and full of personality, and most of the time, highly amusing.  She’s such a fun blogger that her cat decided to get in on the action, but that’s for another day.

So, if you’re not reading Bogue and Weejer, start (that’s a strong encouragement, not a command; I realize I don’t have that kind of power over you all).

Have a good weekend, everyone.  I’ll be in Memphis officiating a wedding for my friend, Sarah.  Maybe I’ll post about it.  Why don’t you spend the next few days in eager anticipation over it?

Friend Friday: Pinch and Squeal

Author: kinsley  //  Category: Family, Friends

Pinch and Squeal is Liza’s (my wife) blog.  I think she should update more.  What about you?

Obviously, she’s more than a friend, but I’m beseeching all you other friends to joing me in campaigning to have Liza really step up her new media presence.

Viva la revolution!

Who’s with me?